Be a Good Fuck Buddy : The Cheat Sheet

Fuck Buddies need Rules

So, you want to have a fuck buddy? The best way to have one is to be one.

For some people, the idea may seem like the stuff of movies, like 'Friends With Benefits', not real life. But the truth is, that these relationships are increasingly common.

That's a statistical fact, and perhaps something to do with the freedom to communicate discreetly and freely online.

Whatever the cause, you can meet strangers online, and arrange to have sex with them on a casual basis.

But you will need to know how to handle yourself in these situations.

Here are some useful affirmations / thoughts / attitudes you should be communicating when you're dealing with these kinds of sexual encounters. If you're serious about having lots of sex, read these and digest them carefully.

1. Put down the ground rules at the beginning: This is a fuck buddy relationship, and I'm making this clear from the word go. Things might change and develop, but this is where we're starting from.
2. We're not having more than three sessions together each week. If we have any more than that, we might as welll be in a relationship, and I didn't sign up for that.
3. You must let me know if you begin to have emotional feelings for me. It's essential that we communicate where we are at.
4. This is not an adventure to brag about to your pals. I need you to be discreet, and I promise to do the same. Let's keep this private.
5. Have a "signal" to make it clear you're ready for sex. e.g. "Fancy a nightcap".
6. This is not a relationship. That means you can see whomever you want, and so can they. You don't own your buddy any emotional commitment.
7. Use contraception and a condom. Whatever the other person says, this arrangement puts you in a risk catagory. Have fun, but be safe.
8. "I'm an adult and I expect you to be one." You both need to accept that this is sex and nothing more. This means being a grown-up, with neither of you having secret expectations.
9. Finally: Lets get down to business. Don't invite me round for a three course meal, a movie, and a cuddle. We aren't in love.

We hope these tips stay with you, give you something to think about. And we hope they help you in your quest for sex with a fuck buddy. 

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